Trump’s Selective Memory: “Not Familiar” With Assassinated Democratic Lawmaker While Raging About “Left-wing Violence”

from the priming-more-violence dept

Donald Trump’s response to political violence this week reveals something more sinister than mere hypocrisy—it’s the deliberate construction of a false reality where only certain victims matter and only certain perpetrators exist. After days of raging about “left-wing violence” following Charlie Kirk’s shooting, Trump was asked about Minnesota House Speaker Melissa Hortman, who was assassinated by a Trump supporter just months ago. His response exposed the entire game.

When asked by a reporter whether it would have been appropriate to lower flags to half-staff for Minnesota House Speaker Melissa Hortman, who was gunned down along with her husband in their home this past June, Trump responded with either breathtaking callousness or stunning ignorance: “I’m not familiar. The who?”

Q: Do you think it would've been fitting to lower the flags to half staff when Melissa Hortman, the Minnesota House Speaker, was gunned down by an assassin?TRUMP: I'm not familiar. The who?

Aaron Rupar (@atrupar.com) 2025-09-15T21:35:39.583Z

This is quite a contrast:

In response to Kirk’s killing, Trump responded with tremendous urgency. He immediately issued an order to lower American flags to half-staff at the White House, all public buildings, U.S. embassies and military posts. He announced he would award Kirk the Presidential Medal of Freedom posthumously. He delivered a wrathful four-minute video address from the White House condemning Kirk’s assassination and promising vengeance against the left. As my colleague Anthony Fisher notes, during that address he made “wildly irresponsible assumptions about the then-unknown suspected killer’s motives. He completely ignored right-wing violence (like the kind he incited in Washington on Jan. 6, 2021), and he explicitly threatened to bring down the force of government on his political opponents.”

But Melissa Hortman? Never heard of her.

So let’s refresh Trump’s supposedly failing memory. On June 14, Vance Luther Boelter—a Trump voter with a hit list containing dozens of Democratic lawmakers, abortion providers, and pro-choice activists—carried out a targeted assassination campaign. Disguised as a police officer, he broke into the homes of two Minnesota Democratic legislators. He murdered House Speaker Melissa Hortman and her husband Mark in their home, along with their dog. State Senator John Hoffman and his wife were shot but survived. This wasn’t random violence—it was a systematic attempt to eliminate Democratic officials.

When this assassination happened, Trump’s response was notably different. He offered a brief, impersonal statement on Truth Social calling the violence “horrific” but did nothing more. No flags at half-staff. No presidential address. No Medal of Freedom. When asked if he had called Minnesota Governor Tim Walz to offer condolences, Trump said it would be a “waste of time” and called Walz “whacked out.”

“I think the governor of Minnesota is so whacked out, I’m not calling him. Why would I call him?” Trump told reporters aboard Air Force One on his way back from the G7 summit on Tuesday.

“He’s a mess. So I could be nice and call, but why waste time?” the president added.

This week, when pressed on why he ordered flags lowered for Kirk but not Hortman, Trump claimed he would have done so if Walz had asked. But this conveniently ignores his own words from June, when he explicitly said calling the governor would be pointless because Walz was “a mess.”

The contrast couldn’t be starker, and it’s not just about protocol—it’s about whose lives Trump thinks matter. Charlie Kirk, a partisan Trump-supporting influencer, gets immediate presidential honors, national mourning, and promises of vengeance. Melissa Hortman, an elected official murdered in a targeted political assassination with multiple victims and a hit list of dozens more targets, gets “I’m not familiar. The who?”

This isn’t just political calculation—it’s moral bankruptcy. Trump is essentially telling the country that some political assassinations matter and others don’t, that some victims deserve remembrance while others can be forgotten entirely. Republican lives apparently merit presidential addresses and flag ceremonies. Democratic lives get a shrug and are quickly to be forgotten and never spoken of again.

What makes this even more perverse is Trump’s immediate assumption that Kirk’s shooter was motivated by “left-wing violence”—without evidence and despite indicators pointing elsewhere suggesting that he was just a confused, troubled, deeply online meme-focused kid with no real political ideology fitting into either the traditional “left” or “right” buckets. Meanwhile, when faced with documented right-wing political assassination—complete with clear hit lists—he claims total ignorance.

But nuance and facts have never been Trump’s strong suits when there’s a partisan, hateful narrative to push.

This is the same pattern we’ve seen repeatedly: extensive right-wing violence gets minimized or ignored, while any violence that can potentially be blamed on the left gets amplified and weaponized.

The media’s role in this selective memory problem can’t be ignored either. When right-wing violence occurs, it gets framed as the work of isolated “lone wolves” with mental health issues—individual tragedies disconnected from any broader movement. But when violence can potentially be attributed to the left, it becomes evidence of a dangerous ideological trend that demands soul-searching about the state of political discourse. This framing makes it easier for stories like Hortman’s assassination to fade quickly from national attention, while Kirk’s shooting immediately gets positioned as a symbol of broader leftist extremism, despite the lack of evidence supporting that narrative.

Trump’s “I’m not familiar” response perfectly encapsulates how MAGA world deals with inconvenient violence: ignore it, forget it, pretend it never happened. Then, when violence occurs that can be spun for political gain, suddenly become the world’s most passionate advocate against political violence.

This isn’t about genuine concern for victims of political violence. It’s about maintaining a narrative where the right is always the victim and the left is always the aggressor, even when the facts point in the opposite direction. It’s about ensuring that some deaths matter politically while others disappear down the memory hole.

But the real danger isn’t just Trump’s moral bankruptcy—it’s the information ecosystem he’s creating. By erasing documented right-wing violence while amplifying questionable cases of supposed left-wing attacks, he’s providing his followers with a fundamentally distorted picture of political violence in America. This isn’t accidental. When people like Vance Boelter compiled hit lists of Democratic targets, they were operating within a narrative framework that casts the left as an existential threat while treating attacks on Democrats as forgettable footnotes.

Trump’s selective amnesia sends a clear message to anyone considering political violence: attacks on the right will be remembered, honored, and avenged. Attacks on Democrats will disappear down the memory hole.

That’s not just permission—it’s encouragement.

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Anonymous Coward says:

I don’t think it’s even forgetfulness.

The nazi party of america does not see others outside of it as anything but enemies, maybe not even human.

It wasn’t just that she was a dem. She was a stupid uppity bitch. Between being a dem and being a woman they don’t see anything wrong with what happened.

A republican, like kirk was, is someone that doesn’t care if a child is dead on the ground so long as it isn’t someone they care about.

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Arianity (profile) says:

attacks on the right will be remembered, honored, and avenged

Hey now, that’s unfair. As soon as we found out the shooter narrative wasn’t going to benefit him personally, he swapped to Charlie Who? And started talking about White House construction.

Trump is an equal opportunity asshole, and is perfectly willing to forget attacks on the right the moment it’s not useful to him personally, too. In Donald Trump’s world, there’s only one thing that matters, and that’s Donald Trump.

Arianity (profile) says:

Re: Re:

Oh for sure. There’s just something darkly funny when he pivots so fast that his followers didn’t get the memo. Especially when it breaks the illusion. The whole authoritarian trade off is supposed to be that Daddy is supposed to hate who they hate, and protect them from scary things. And he just cannot even bother keeping up the pretense of giving a shit.

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Anonymous Coward says:

who was assassinated by a Trump supporter just months ago

You’re lying, again. There’s no particular evidence he was Trump supporter beyond what one guy said. He WAS appointed to a state board by Tim Walz, and he claimed in a letter to the FBI that Tim Walz asked him to kill a buncha people. If he wasn’t just crazy (likely), his motivations were probably leftist.

But Melissa Hortman? Never heard of her.

Yeah, cuz as soon as the media got wind that it might’ve been a leftist, they stopped covering it and the story went away. If he actually had Trump connections you would have heard about it for a year.

More importantly, no one on the Right cheered on the murders, nor thought it was a good thing. In contrast 10’s of thousands of Leftists (at least) have publically cheered Kirk’s murder. Leftists continue to lie about what he said and believed, including right here on TD, apparently to make the assassination somehow OK.

We are not the same.

The Left says everyone who disagrees with them is a nazi/fascist/bigot and then says violence against nazi/fascist/bigots is OK.

You are not the good guys, quite the opposite.

The democrats are the party of violence.

Stephen T. Stone (profile) says:

Re:

There’s no particular evidence he was Trump supporter beyond what one guy said.

Other than the list of people that included the kinds of people that a violent Trump supporter/right-wing extremist would target? No, no evidence at all. 🙄

If he wasn’t just crazy (likely), his motivations were probably leftist.

I doubt it, considering how he planned to target abortion providers. Leftists have that whole “pro-choice” thing going on, after all.

cuz as soon as the media got wind that it might’ve been a leftist, they stopped covering it and the story went away

Not really. The story went away because, as is the case more often than not in these times, something is a story only for as long as Donald Trump makes it a story. He gave less of a shit about those shootings than he did about Charlie Kirk’s.

There’s also the fact that gun violence has become so normalized in the U.S. that a sitting lawmaker being murdered isn’t nearly as big a story as, say, a bunch of elementary school students being murdered. Like, yeah, they’re both shocking and horrifying to the people who experience them first-hand or have to deal with the direct aftermath, but after so many shootings, Americans in general have become numb to the idea that we should care about them at all because nothing ever gets done to help prevent the next one.

no one on the Right cheered on the murders, nor thought it was a good thing

They weren’t shy about mocking the attack on Paul Pelosi, though. But hey, of course they wouldn’t celebrate a murder⁠—that still has political repercussions they don’t want to face.

In contrast 10’s of thousands of Leftists (at least) have publically cheered Kirk’s murder.

How many of those were actual leftists, and how many of those were right-wing provocateurs (or angry mind-controlled monkeys, same diff) acting as if they were leftists?

Leftists continue to lie about what he said and believed

I have literally offered a whole list of Charlie Kirk quotes that were found through multiple reputable news sources and (in some cases) fact-checked by Snopes. You haven’t offered a shred of evidence that proves how anything in that list wasn’t a direct quote from Charlie Kirk himself.

The democrats are the party of violence.

Then why have more acts of political violence in the past decade been carried out by people who supported Trump/held conservative- or right-leaning beliefs? I mean, if you can offer proof that Democrat voters/people who hold progressive- or left-leaning beliefs have carried out more acts of actual physical violence on the name of a political than Republicans⁠—and said proof doesn’t amount to “trust me, bro”⁠—I’d love to see it. But you’re already at a disadvantage thanks to the 6th of January 2021, so please account for that when you start trying to cite Michael McDoesn’texist as your top source.

Stephen T. Stone (profile) says:

Re: Re: Re:

I think it’s funny that you think someone would even read, let alone address, the wall of text you put up just utter mischaracterizing everything.

Plenty of people have done it before. Your cowardice isn’t my problem.

No one has to [bake] you a cake.

You should know that in the Masterpiece Cakeshop case, the bakery lost the case on the merits at every level but SCOTUS. (The Supreme Court kicked the can down the road on what was effectively a procedural issue.) You should also know that at no point in that string of losses did the courts ever try to force Masterpiece Cakeshop into making a cake for the couple that sued the bakery. The judgment against Masterpiece effectively gave them a choice for the future: Obey the law and stop discriminating against gay couples or eat a fine for every act of discrimination. To its credit, the bakery chose Option C and stopped offering wedding cakes altogether.

Shooting them is not an appropriate response to this

Never said that, you can’t prove I did, die mad about it.

MrWilson (profile) says:

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the wall of text you put up just utter mischaracterizing everything

“Your statements conflict with my propaganda sources so you must be wrong because I’ve invested my entire identity in the stories I’m fed that tell me I’m a good guy and everyone I have an unreasonable fear and hatred for are definitely the bad guys. I’m wasting my time typing to tell you I’m not reading anything that causes me uncomfortable dissonance or requires me to pay attention for more than two seconds to get my dopamine hit!”

Anonymous Coward says:

Re: US justice department removes study finding far-right extremists commit ‘far more’ violence

The vanished study opened with: “Since 1990, far-right extremists have committed far more ideologically motivated homicides than far-left or radical Islamist extremists, including 227 events that took more than 520 lives. In this same period, far-left extremists committed 42 ideologically motivated attacks that took 78 lives.”

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/sep/17/justice-department-study-far-right-extremist-violence

That One Guy (profile) says:

Turns out some lives DO matter...

For a group that loses their shit over the idea of Black Lives Matter(ing), claiming as I’ve seen that it’s racist because why all the focus on black lives, don’t all lives matter, it sure is telling how MAGAts only care about the lives of fellow cultists and consider any deaths outside that grouping to be insignificant if not worthy of celebration.

Anonymous Coward says:

Re:

When hypocrisy becomes a power flex rather than a political, cultural or financial liability, you tend to officially cross the boundaries of a hot civil war even if you never actually fire a shot, get violent or have freedom of speech concerns.

The USA is about 10 or 20 years out from having to rework or scrap the First Amendment entirely and that will be after one side or the other wins completely. The problem is the various flavors of the conservative and liberal ideologies are spilling out into other Western countries and going to be decided one way or the other influenced by buy not decided by, what happens in the USA.

China actually can’t control it’s nationalist population’s preoccupations either although it tries very hard to keep them on an ideological and cultural leash. Not understanding the two sides’ platforms beyond astroturf meddling is dangerous for them as well no matter how much they seem to have decided the issue already.

glenn says:

It’s consistent with everything Trump has been saying for [at least] 10 years: “loyal” Republicans matter, Democrats don’t. (MAGA uber alles!) Just being a Democrat is tantamount to being a criminal as far as Trump is concerned. He’ll break any law he chooses, and the Supreme Court has already sanctioned it. All he “worries” about now is how God will punish him, not that he actually believes in God.

Anonymous Coward says:

A crazy black man killed a white woman on the New York City subway. A crazy white man killed a black woman on the Bay Area Rapid Transit system.

Guess which got most media attention, hmm?

(Yes, technically ‘crazy’ should be written out as ‘certifiably mentally ill’). (And that’s ‘Bay Area’ as in ‘San Francisco Bay Area’).

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