Try Fedi Friday: Just One Day A Week, Experiment With Alternative Social Media
from the or-maybe-it's-fuck-off-friday dept
It’s not at all surprising why tons of people, including journalists, are sticking around Twitter even if they shouldn’t. Part of it is inertia. People were settled into what worked before, and change is difficult. Partly because of that, people are loathe to switch. Even those who have switched over to alternatives like Mastodon in the Fediverse find it difficult to do so. There’s a bit of a chicken-and-egg problem in which, when people first sign up, it feels “empty” because there’s no algorithm pumping their feed full of content (though I’ve found Mastodon to be quite engaging, to an almost overwhelming degree that I can’t keep up). You have to do a little bit of work, and that can feel like a lot.
But still.
There are so, so, so many reasons to not think this is a good state of affairs. The events of the last few years should demonstrate why relying on any centralized social media is inherently risky. This goes beyond just Twitter, but Elon has been turning that site into a ridiculous plaything in which he makes decisions based on which of his dumbest (but most loyal) fans he thinks will get the biggest kick out of them, rather than any sense of what’s best for the site’s users.
Last week, the pseudonymous Chance from the Chancery Daily publication suggested that we start embracing a concept of “Fedi Friday,” in which even people who feel that they’re going to stick around on Twitter for a while at least just spend one day a week exploring alternative social media, just so they have a general knowledge of it, and experience with it, in case they’re targeted in the next “look at me, I’m in charge now” purge from an insecure, whiny billionaire.
Seeing how Elon has handled the whole NPR situation should be instructive. His pettiness in the whole thing, including yesterday tweeting “defund NPR” should highlight why relying on Twitter is dangerous.

And, even if you think you support and agree with Musk, he’s shown little to no problem with stabbing his supporters in the back the second they push back even the slightest bit. He’ll even publish their private communications just to win a slap fight. So even if you think that Musk is magically “saving” Twitter, it still makes sense to find a space that isn’t controlled by him.
You don’t have to commit to leaving Twitter. You just need to spend a little time each week testing out the alternatives, of which there are many. The ActivtyPub-based “fediverse” is much vaster than people realize, going beyond just Mastodon (though they all interact in some ways). Larger companies such as Medium, Mozilla, and Flipboard are all embracing ActivityPub in one way or another, and others are poking around the edges as well.
There are, of course, a variety of other, centralized platforms, and you can test them out as well, but all of those run the same risk of what’s happened with Twitter: they can be run by a thin-skinned, whiny, out-of-touch billionaire with the maturity of a 15-year-old and the vindictiveness of a pre-school child who has had his ball taken away.
There are some other decentralized platforms worth checking out as well. Nostr is an incredibly simple and lightweight decentralized protocol that keeps improving. Bluesky, which was initially funded by Jack Dorsey to create an independent decentralized protocol that Twitter could adopt, is now in beta with its own AT Protocol. Both are decentralized and worth exploring, through not as widely adopted as the larger Fediverse.
If some of the specifics of Mastodon trouble you, you can look at some various ActivityPub-compatible forks like Calckey or Qoto that include many of the features that people sometimes feel are lacking from vanilla Mastodon (like quote tweets).
There is no one right way to do things. The point is that rather than settling for continuing to feed into a system you know is bad and problematic, at least spend some time on just one day a week (why not Friday) to explore the alternatives. Spend a bit of time find more active accounts to follow, interacting with some of the many people who use these services, and just prepare yourself for the future, rather than pretending there’s nothing to do but be the plaything for a childish billionaire who delights in making you suffer, so long as it pleases his fans.
Filed Under: activitypub, at protocol, centralized, control, decentralized, experiment, fedi friday, fuck off friday, social media
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Comments on “Try Fedi Friday: Just One Day A Week, Experiment With Alternative Social Media”
HEY!!
That’s an insult to the maturity of 15-year-olds!
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True. I’ve noticed that with a lot of the right-wing that they don’t seem to have matured emotionally past adolescence. But, I do know some teenagers, and most of them seem to be able to control their emotions better than some billionaires I’ve observed. Then, the people who stan for the billionaires but don’t actually have any wealth of their own? Amazing.
I hate the fact that we have to watch as the fate of so many lives are discussed by mentally challenger adolescents masquerading as business and political leaders, but I can be hopeful in that I know actual teens who are above such things already.
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I respectfully disagree. What I’ve noticed with a lot of the US right-wing is that they don’t seem to have matured emotionally past being a toddler.
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Because there are toddlers capable of passing the “marshmallow test.”
Defund @Twitter
… Checks estimated financials since Elon took over …
Excellent work Mr Musk, carry on.
Is… Is he trying to say that NPR is abusing it’s legal position to ruin peoples lives and/or literally kill them (and I mean literally, they are a corpse, possibly with extra holes)? Or maybe he’s just trying to say NPR is “as bad as” all of that.
Without a well reasoned explanation of why, this is just someone trying to get their fix of public humiliation.
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Suspect it’s more like “Hey libs, how does it feel when someone says money should be taken away from something you’re weirdly horny for?”
Re: Memeito ergo sum
At this point, assume he operates under the first principle of “I meme, therefore I am.”
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I think Elmo the Simpleminded thinks if NPR stopped receiving government funds that it would collapse.
He and his fellow QAnon followers seem to think NPR gets most of its funding from the government when that has already been shown to be false.
yeah the Defund NPR stuff is ridiculous. Elon is picking a fight with Mr Rogers and Sesame Street… makes no sense.
saw this on HN the other day though: https://twitter-alternatives.com
Mike
If you need to advert, go ahead
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Mike, your begging for people to substitute another service for Twitter is getting pathetic. All of the hate you’ve directed to Twitter under Musk (and Musk personally), and you’re reduced to literally imploring your readers to leave the site, if only for a day.
BTW, how is Musk “making” you or any reader of TechDirt “suffer”? Get a grip.
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Oh, Techdirt isn’t suffering because of violent Nazis like you.
It’s the many, many people who are relying on Twitter for their socials, business and other important economic lifelines, as well as portfolios, who will be harmed by these selfish, possibly violent billionaires.
I do know quite a few people who use only Twitter for those purposes, and have, in the course of my lifetime, interacted with a lot of people who have used Twitter for business purposes.
Perhaps it is you who should, as you say, GET A GRIP.
Your callous disregard for people is showing.
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At least you losers are finally admitting that there’s no real-world harm to Twitter’s userbase following Musk’s purchase of the business, and this is all just an extended, speculative freak-out for attention and sympathy from other dweebs, driven by resentment towards successful, wealth-creating entrepreneurs.
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An environment of uncertainty is bad for business NOW as well, jackboot.
And a lot of creative-types do rely on social media LIKE Twitter for promotion, portfolio showing and all that artist-type stuff.
Perhaps you might think they all need to be sent to the frontlines of your useless “culture” war or worse. I don’t.
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Hey Ivan, what sort of “no real-world harm” are you up to lately?
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Have you not learnt how the wealthy gain and stay wealthy, as illustrated by Musk’s management of twitter, and that is expect employees to work long hours, and give up all the things that make life enjoyable. Sexual partnerships will crumble when one of the partners is never there because of work demands.
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there’s no real-world harm to Twitter’s userbase following Musk’s purchase of the business
Nope, none at all. Advertisers on the other hand? Now that’s some real-world-he-can’t-pay-his-fucking-bills harm, isn’t it?
I’d be less worried about the users when ~90% of revenue came from ad sales, but then again I didn’t pay $44b for that shitpile.
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…said nobody not on hallucinogens, ever.
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How is Masnick or any reader of Techdirt making you or Musk suffer?
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Hey, so, for what reason are you so defensive of a man who doesn’t know or care that you exist and the service he’s running (into the ground)?
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Ahhh, the sweet smell of reality for the simpleton Musk asslickers worried that if even a few people leave Twatter for the Fediverse, it’s gonna trigger a mass exodus.
I’ve had a pretty good experience on Mastodon so far. Mentally speaking, I always feel more relaxed whenever I poke around on there compared to Twitter. Just not having extreme politics rammed down your throat all the time alone is enough to make it a breath of fresh air. At least, that is one of the first few things I noticed while on there.
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The content warning system helps with that a lot.
I think a lot of people still on Twitter are there because they feel like they have to be rather than because they’re afraid of trying something new.