Kid Bullied For My Little Pony Backpack Told Not To Bring It To School Anymore
from the blaming-the-victim dept
In the ongoing idiocy that is schools employing zero tolerance policies, the admittedly misguided overbearing results at least tend to have some pretend logic behind them. The school is afraid of guns, so ban everything that remotely looks like a gun, even if we’re just talking about some kid’s fingers. The school wants to curtail bullying, so they go nuclear at anything even remotely resembling bullying. Yes, it’s misguided, yes, it’s stupid, but you can at least follow along the logical path they walked before jumping off the cliff.
But where one
California North Carolina grade school got the stones to blame Grayson Bruce and his backpack for the bullying he’s endured is beyond me.
A mother and her 9-year-old son say school officials won’t let him bring a My Little Pony bag to school. The boy and his mother say he’s getting shoved around because bullies think his pick of a favorite toy is for girls.
My Little Pony, which has enjoyed something of a resurgence lately, is a show about friendship. One would have to work extremely hard after being hit in the head with a hammer in order to find anything offensive within it. The only explanation anyone has offered for banning Grayson from bringing his damned backpack to school has been that it sets off the bullies to go about their bullying ways. This, in case you’re dense, is about as pure a form of blaming the victim as one can find. Fortunately, while the school in question decided to paint a damned backpack as the culprit in this scenario, the power of social media has risen to support Grayson.
Since it aired, the story has been picked up by websites, blogs and television stations across the nation. Tuesday it was one of the top stories trending on social media. The Facebook page 9-year-old Grayson Bruce’s parents have set up for him now has more than 3,700 “Likes”. Grayson has developed a following on Facebook after a friend made a support page for him. Grayson stands by his favorite cartoon and the message he says it sends. His mother says, why not?
But Noreen says Thursday the school asked him to leave the bag at home because it had become a distraction and was a “trigger for bullying.”
This is absurd. In a world where too many schools are embracing too many zero tolerance policies, this one is actually going down the road of removing the subject of the bullying instead. What fun! What if the young man was gay? Or black? Mexican? What if he liked a certain kind of music, or was a huge fan of the wrong sports team? What if he had a medical condition? Sorry, sport, but you have to leave your crutches at home, ‘cuz the kids just ain’t down with them.
No, the proper response to is to pull those bullying Grayson aside and explain to them in stark terms why their actions aren’t acceptable. Banning MLP backpacks can’t be the answer, lest we allow all those children to learn the exact wrong lesson in their place of learning.