My girlfriend,like a sister to me,surprized me,one day when she entered me on “Crags List!”..First of all,he placed the wrong photo as being the “then”..becuase unless he had full body plastic surgery,could never have turned in the “after” photo! This guy,was such a sick creep..he was unatracrive,when I was dated good looking men..no, I know all about the deeper sense,”It’s what is in the heart stuff”,but there was no compensation there too! Why should I settle? I swore I would report him to “Craigs List”,for being a phoney! He was promising me things like calling up to order something I said I wanted,just in conversation,then said the company said they’d take $20 from hos credot card each month! That didn’t make any sense,because,it had “one price”,& that was it! Then he said his sister was really sick,the other sister called him,wanting him to go to N.J right away..he said he told her”oh,no,first I’ll speak w/ the doctors,I can’t just leave,I have appointment w/ my customers”[plumber] I aksed what happened,to your sister..he said “the doctors don’t know”..but what happened in the first place?,I said?” he still said “I dont know yet”,but he did know the underlying problem!I kept asking..saying “but Paul,what happened to her in the 1st place that was so shockingly upsetting?” He never said,nor did he even make something up! What a frustrating freak!He had a computer in his car,[laptop w/ GPS hook-up]he showed it to me[when we met at a nearby CVS,for the first time after approx 7 calls,10 e-mails!] We went to breakfast,he splattered ketchup all over his omelet!,I mean,I wans’t raised to eat Ketchup on spagetti either,I was raised Sicilian,I thought I’d faint! There are things one just cannot accept,unless desperate[I am not]rather an attractive[always was] at 52 I look great! He was inferior..I am intellegent..& didn’t need his sick constant “offerings”,then saying nothing after I brought it up..like what happened when you called to order that thing I wanted[he said $20$ is not going to break him,indeed,he had plenty of money!]When a woman is in her 50’s [especially] it is she should be receiving gifts,not the other way around..he said “it’s the guy who should be “getting” something First”[You see he told me the last girl on Craigs List,didn’t let him go near her,that he took her to dinner over 8 times..I said,”when did you finally catch on she was just looking for dinner dates?” I mean what guy goes w/ a girl who gives nothing after 4 dates[a kiss] something??..he said “I touched her knee,she quickly picked my hand up,placing it back on his knee”.So,I blasted him,saying you offered to order 2 things for me,even saying “oh I got you a cell phone”[but it’s only good for 2 months& there’s 60 calls you must use[something like this] I don’t even know 6 people,to call!You mean all this time while you were telling me you were working on a “cell phone plan” that’s what it offered.only?”Afetr these lies,I told him off,calling him choice names..this was beginning to sound like “prostitution”[although there’s thin line between a woman giving,& the man paying,many wives Take their husband money,while they have headaches everynight!] I mean,not to knock the “working girl”,but he wanted “IT” first…PAUL DUSA@..is a sicko..look out girls if you’re too pretty,too intellegent..stay away from this sick freak! By the way he never even saw “THE PRODUCERS” I mean,really! another thing,each time I mentioned something I heard on the news,{anything] he’d say “oh,that’s too negative,,I don’t think about those things”[exact words!]what,are you talking about,all I said was [so& so happened]..he’d always say that..I told him,”believe it or not..but not all things are Possitive,Paul!I’m actually afraid to tell you anything again,suddenly you’re so pious,re: the negative&possitives of life?He was unattractive,his picture was NOT him,he was sloppy,his truck was sloopy too,papers to left over bagels,in a bag [which he threw out after] he spent the entire time after ordering our breakfast talking to the wairess,we both did..but we were suppossed to be talkining to EACH OTHER!!!right?? He made excuses for everything,his passivity was driving me nuts..”oh,she’s fat because she stopped smoking” No Paul,she stopped 10 yrs ago!!Shouldn’t she be loosing weight by now? I hated this liar,I wanted to tell Craigs List so I DID,,THEY NEVER ANSWERED ME..they no doubt had a mundane excuse for “at your own risk thing”..