Technopanic In The UK! Think Of The Children! They're Talking About SEX Online!

from the fear!-run!-do-something! dept

Just a week after we were talking about a new research report on media-induced “technopanics” we’ve got another one. This time, it’s coming from the UK. The headline announces: One in ten children have sexually explicit conversations on the internet, study finds. Oh no! And then, each paragraph adds another scare factor: these kids also lie to their parents! Oh no! Sometimes they chat with strangers! Oh no! Some of them go to websites with adult content! Oh no! Some even pretend to do homework while actually (gasp!) chatting with others! It’s just awful!

Of course, if you actually look at the details, they don’t sound bad at all. In fact, I’m pretty surprised the numbers are as low as they are. The study itself involved a survey of kids from ages 11 to 18 in the UK. That’s a huge range. Kids in the 16, 17 and 18 year old range are quite different from your everyday 11 and 12 year old. And the idea that a 17 or 18 year-old might have had a sexually explicit conversation online doesn’t seem too surprising. Note that it never says anything about with whom the sexually explicit conversation occurred. Assuming that many of these 17 and 18 year olds have boyfriends or girlfriends, and they probably all use instant messaging, social networking or text messaging — you have to imagine that many of them will have had somewhat sexually explicit conversations with that boyfriend or girlfriend. That’s really not that out of the ordinary. The fact that it’s only 11% of kids surveyed sounds incredibly low.

As for lying to parents about what they’re doing online, is that a surprise? The fact that a kid would tell his mom he’s doing homework while he’s really chatting with his girlfriend or his friends? That’s to be expected. Note that the study doesn’t appear to have said just that people lied about having sexually explicit chats, either. Just that they lied about what they were doing online. As for chatting with strangers… while the article mentions that in passing, it doesn’t indicate that the survey actually asked any questions about that at all. And, finally, visiting websites with adult content, I will again point out that we’re talking about boys who are going through puberty. The fact that some of them eventually visit an adult website should hardly be news.

But when the press packages it all together in this nice format, it makes it seem like we’ve got a bunch of deviant kids running around the internet with no supervision from their luddite parents, who need to start standing over the shoulders of their kids as they surf. Either that, or perhaps we can calm down, realize that the stats don’t say anything all that surprising, and move on to something that might actually matter.

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Brian says:

Re: That is startling!

Only one in ten? Holy shit! That’s surprisingly low!

That’s what I was going to say. I guarentee you at least 89% of Internet using kids in the UK lied to researchers about their activities online.

Just sayin’. It’s still not a bad thing. I have to say, if it weren’t for the Internet, I would have had a lot less interesting things to try with my girlfriends in high school. What was I going to do? Really. My father never talked to me about that stuff. (He does now, much to my dismay.)

And not that I’m a teen anymore, but OMG! I’m conversing with scawwy strangers right now! I need an adult! I need an adult!

Seriously. People need to get over this crap. I’m pretty tired of hearing about it.

Anonymous Coward says:

Heres some real figures


Thats the percentage of men aged 11-18 that will talk to strangers, sometimes about sex, while on an adult website no less, who own a computer with internet access. It’s called puberty, and it happens everyday. Same goes for the ladies, but they mature faster so it’s probably happening at a younger age for them.

Humans start to mature at a very young age. It’s how our bodies are designed and only over the last couple hundred years has become “taboo” for some reason. Back in the 1600’s it was not uncommon for teenagers to be getting married and starting families of their own. It’s only because our life-spans have incresaed dramatically that it seems out of place for us to have sex at a young age.

Like anything else, it’s about education; you either understand the repsonsibility of your actions or you do not. If a young adult can understand the gravity of the situation jsut as well as an older adult can, then there’s no reason they shouldn’t be allowed to partake in the same actions. If you’re 25 and understand sex can lead to STD’s and parenthood, and a kid 14 understands that just as well, I dont see any reason what makes one more qualified on the basis of age alone. The mind matures or it doesn’t, and age only affects that up to a certain point of cognative ability. After that, it’s up to knowledge and wisdom to do the rest.

Point being, if I knew a kid 7 years old understood what exactly sex entailed just as well as I myself understand it, I would have no objection to them taking part in that activity. As I imagine anyone else would, but none of us belive a human at that young of an age can understand its implications, therefore we try to prohibit them from engaging in doing so. This goes for driking, smoking, driving, and everything else in life, it all boils down to maturity, and we know humans are quite capable of adulthood at even the age of 14, if properly prepared.

SteveD says:

Teen dating website home to paedophiles?

You’d think the BBC would know better. A childrens charity complains that a site makes it possible for adults to contact teenagers. zomg!

A userbase of 17’000 and only 150 over-40’s, less then 1% of the people who use the site, and somehow its portrayed as a haven for paedophiles.

Anonymous Coward says:

10%???? And they are actually spinning that number as something to be alarmed about? What do they want it to be? 1%? 0.05%?

Where are the quotes from the politicians about “winning the war against pornography!”? 10% use of anything considered “sinful” should be applauded.

Heck marijuana use in that age range hovers somewhere around 20% (in America). Oral sex between teens (15-19) is around 50%.

If I was a bible thumpin’ jesus freak, I would be doing some serious holy chest thumps over a number as low as 10%

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