Rhode Island Teen Facing 'Domestic Violence' Charges For 'Inappropriate' Facebook Message Sent To A Girl He Met

from the don't-be-a-jerk-online dept

We've seen a growing number of vague and worrisome laws passed over the past few years to try to outlaw being a jerk online. Earlier this year, we noted one such law in Rhode Island, which was technically dubbed an "anti-cyberstalking" law, though we worried about just how vague and open for abuse it was. Well, we've now got the first charges filed under the new law. Kashmir Hill points us to the news that a 15-year-old boy is facing "domestic violence" charges for some "inappropriate" messages he sent via Facebook to a 16-year-old girl he met.
Police say the 15-year-old Barrington boy met a 16-year-old girl while taking classes this summer and they started to talk through Facebook.

But police say the 16-year-old felt uncomfortable when the messages started getting inappropriate.

Police started the investigation in July and now they've charged the minor with cyber stalking, which is now punishable under the domestic violence prevention act.
There are a whole series of issues here. While the text of the messages hasn't been revealed, the fact that the judgment is based on the girl "feeling uncomfortable" leaves open a wide range of possible abuses. If I feel "uncomfortable" about comments on Techdirt, can I really have the police investigate and potentially send someone to jail because of it? Even the RI representative who wrote the law says that this use is "not what she envisioned." However, she then says it's okay because "the law might stop it from happening to someone else."

Really? Stop what exactly? A boy sending a message to a girl that makes her feel uncomfortable? That's called "most of high school" for some boys. And since there's no clear way to determine what is and what is not appropriate here, do we really want to be charging kids under things like domestic violence laws just because they go too far in a Facebook message? I'm not saying that the kid shouldn't be dealt with in some way if the messages really are "inappropriate," but can't they be dealt with in other ways? Block him on Facebook or have parents punish him. Involving the police and charges? Seems "inappropriate."


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    crade (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 9:29am

    "But police say the 16-year-old felt uncomfortable when the messages started getting inappropriate. "

    So she removed him as a friend on her facebook.
    The End.

     

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    The eejit (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 9:56am

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    Well, that would work. Except, y'know, the fact that the police were involved. I can applaud the police and decry the law.

     

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    Skeptical Cynic (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:21am

    It is now illegal to comment on the Internet except...

    with smiley faces :-) and slightly unhappy faces :-|

     

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    Pickle Monger (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:22am

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    Except who got the police involved in the first place? If she's that uncomfortable about a guy in her class and doesn't want to de-friend him on FB, well.. that's what fmylife.com is for...

     

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    That Anonymous Coward (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:31am

    If I feel "uncomfortable" about comments on Techdirt, can I really have the police investigate and potentially send someone to jail because of it?


    http://www.techdirt.com/articles/20110919/01530216000/us-marshals-service-asks-us-to-remove-c omment.shtml

    It worked for an AC...

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:32am

    I want to cut off mikes ear and have sex with it.

     

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    Cowardly Anon, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:33am

    I totally read cyberstalking as cybers talking. I then wondered why talking to someone online was against the law.....

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:34am

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    ...just his ear?

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:36am

    Mike, do you have the actual comments in question? I doubt it. So you are left speculating, as are the rest of us.

    Until you know the comments, can you really question police involvement? You seem way to ready to jump to a conclusion here.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:37am

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    His pinky isn't bad either....

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:40am

    Sticks and stones may break my bones...
    But it's messages on Facebook that really hurt me...

     

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    That Anonymous Coward (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:41am

    But, for those who say domestic violence is a harsh penalty for a 15-year-old allegedly harassing someone online, Representative Coderre says its not what she envisioned with the law but it might stop it from happening to someone else.

    "If this is an activity he's engaging in it might be a good wake up call not to do this."

    Representative Coderre says she worked with the Coalition on Domestic Violence for four or five years to make traditional stalking the same punishment as cyber stalking.


    So "cyberstalking" is domestic violence?
    A better wake up call for him might have been, I dunno her adult calling his adult and pointing out there is an issue and finding a solution. But that is to much like parenting, and why do that when you can just have the government take all the responsibility.

    I can't wait for word to get around school that she flipped out over some words on Facebook and the kids shut her out, and then she can try to complain no one wants to talk to her anymore and its not fair, then we can force kids to talk to her... that will end well.

     

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    Tim K (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:41am

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    Try reading AC, While the text of the messages hasn't been revealed, the fact that the judgment is based on the girl "feeling uncomfortable" leaves open a wide range of possible abuses.

     

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    The Incoherent One (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:43am

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    Guess we know what your packing..........?

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:46am

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    Look, if you're not going to *read the fscking article*, why are you posting? Are you really so hard-up for attention that you have to do this?

    If you want to tell Mike you love him with a passion that dare not speak its name, then just come out and tell him.
    Unless you're in the second grade, it's just embarrassing to see this "hitting the person you have a crush on" crap.

    Please learn to express your feelings like an adult so that the rest of us don't have to read this crap.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:48am

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    You two are such gits... my point exactly.

    Mike admits to not knowing, so how can he draw any conclusion about police involvement? Maybe the guy suggested he was going to kill all her family and rape her goldfish. Who knows? We don't. Mike doesn't. So why draw conclusion with way less than the facts?

    You guys need to read my comments as well as Mike's, and then you might catch on.

     

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    The Incoherent One (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:49am

    These types of laws are horse shit. People still have the option to read/not read whatever they want. If it made the girl uncomfortable to read the messages then should should have blocked him and not read them. Getting the police involved is stupid and a waste of taxpayers time. People need to learn not to be dependent on government to take care of EVERYTHING for them.

     

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    Skeptical Cynic (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:55am

    Re: Re: Re: Re:


    Inappropriate comments will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law
    unless they make too many people laugh.

     

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    smoked salmon, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 10:59am

    There is no need for a new 'web law' as you can apply the existing framework online. The problem is the interpretation and application, in terms of harassment, this can be far too wide. Being a jerk online is not acceptable but the law can be an ass in cyberspace? It really does baffle me when police get involved, people are charged and risk time in prison.

    We've seen definite overkill in other social media, such as Twitter and Paul Chambers - http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/311282

     

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    Chronno S. Trigger (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:00am

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    Pay attention, the comments made her feel "uncomfortable" not "threatened". "Uncomfortable" means "he was coming on to me and I don't like him in that way"; "threatened" means "He said he was going to kill my family and rape my goldfish".

    And a little critical thinking would tell you that it wasn't anything like a threat. If it was a direct threat, the comment in question would be all over the news with the claim that this is why we need these overbearing laws.

     

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    Louis Smith (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:02am

    Another movie reference...

    ... these kinds of articles make me think we are getting closer and closer to "you have been fined 1 credit for violating the verbal morality code". We've already taken PC too far in the office, now we're rolling it down to the kids.. Pretty soon, "growing up" will be illegal. But then again, this is just because it is "on the internet". Just get the kids to go back to being jerks and bullies on the playground where they belong.

     

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    Ninja (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:02am

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    That. Block mails, msn and so on. If the guy keeps following then it's stalk and there were laws for that before this. Actually, there are laws to deal with online bullying if it goes public or threatening even before the online versions came.

    So another major fail for the Police State US.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:09am

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    *sigh*

    Threats make me uncomfortable. Do they not cause you to feel the same way?

    Critical thinking would be "Mike doesn't know what was said, so he cannot draw conclusions on what is or what is not appropriate".

    Kissing Mike's ass would be "Pay attention, the comments made her feel..."

    See the difference?

     

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    Ninja (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:09am

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    "rape my goldfish" was priceless. We need to start some sort of non-governmental organization to protect the goldfishes from rapists and give aid to the victims of such vile act.

    Since I'm already posting for the lil raped goldfish: AC up there is our regular troll, don't waste your time with it.

     

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    Jake, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:21am

    Without knowing the exact contents of the messages in question I'll have to reserve judgement, because there is being a jerk online and there is sexual harrassment and making threats.

    Nevertheless, regardless of whether what was said actually constitutes the latter, this should not have gone to court for a first offence. There are attitude-adjustment strategies that don't require saddling a dumnb teenage kid who was too immature to know any better with a criminal record.

     

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    Chronno S. Trigger (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:21am

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    Read the article again (or for the first time as would seem to be your case); the police said that the girl felt uncomfortable. The police said that, not the girl, not the father, not some third party layman. The police would use the correct term. If there was a threat, the police would say the girl felt threatened.

    Have I said police enough to drill it into your head that a professional said this; a professional who would be bias towards this law. A professional who would not screw up and say a non-legal word.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:23am

    Is your goldfish alright? I just heard, where can I donate to the goldfish rape survivor's fund?

     

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    Bill Silverstein (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:26am

    Call the police

    My goldfish saw your comment and is uncomfortable. It won't come out of its castle.

     

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    TheStupidOne, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:26am

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    Shouldn't she just start with telling him how he is making her feel? Even a simple "You are making me uncomfortable, please stop talking to me" is quite effective with the majority of guys.

    People need to fix their own problems and when that is impossible or ineffective use a graduated response approach. Ask him to leave you alone, if he doesn't ask your parents to talk to his parents or alternate authority figure, if that doesn't work go to the police or other higher authority.

    Now of course if she's actually being threatened it becomes a different story altogether.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:55am

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    Wait, are these the same professionals that sprayed the pepper spray on Wall street? You need to pick one side and work with it!

    Seriously, the police's use of "uncomfortable" doesn't really say anything. Nor is it particularly relevant to my point. My point is Mike is drawing a conclusion without having the facts, and jumping up and down about the police being involved without knowing everything.

    If that doesn't make you "uncomfortable", I doubt threats on your goldfish will.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:01pm

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    Yeah, pick a side and deal with it! If a group of people do something wrong, they can never do anything right! So if one anonymous coward does something stupid, we're all retards.

     

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    Dark Helmet (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:02pm

    Re: Re: Re:

    "Mike admits to not knowing, so how can he draw any conclusion about police involvement?"

    Probably because if it was anything serious, the charges wouldn't be based "on the girl feeling uncomfortable", but would istead revolve around a threat posed by the boy.

    Man, reading between the lines ain't THAT hard....

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:03pm

    Re:

    There are attitude-adjustment strategies that don't require saddling a dumnb teenage kid who was too immature to know any better with a criminal record.


    Yep, several strategies that would work. Number 1: have police show up at the door with guns drawn. Number 2: shoot kid.

     

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    Berenerd (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:07pm

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    because if you say the wrong thing you will be arrested for cyberstalking apparently....

     

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    Chronno S. Trigger (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:14pm

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    "Wait, are these the same professionals that sprayed the pepper spray on Wall street?"

    That proves my point. These cops wouldn't be downplaying something like a threat. They would be hyping it all over the nation as a sign that they're doing right, that they need these laws to do their job. The simple fact that a cop is downplaying the comment says that it's not much of a comment.

    And your point isn't to shed light on just this article, your point is to harass Mike and to berate anyone who has a different opinion then you. Beware what you say, your making people feel uncomfortable.

     

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    Berenerd (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:15pm

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    Actually they aren't the same people. 1 the events are roughly about 300 miles apart from one another and I don't think the Barrington Police department or the RI state troopers are moonlighting as NYC cops. They have their own issues in RI to deal with. I know, I drive through RI on my way to work every day.

     

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    Berenerd (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:19pm

    Re: Another movie reference...

    Hey...I am looking forward to that system...I hate using the damned 3 sea shells...

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:21pm

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    "Man, reading between the lines ain't THAT hard...."

    I think this statement gets to the heart of the differences between 'insiders' and some ACs. And really its to ACs point. The 'between the lines' part is subjective, we don't all see the same thing there.

    TD loves this kind of position where subjective opinion is never right or wrong. Mike can declare himself correct and many regular readers will accept that. Some of us do not have the insider faith.

     

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    Dark Helmet (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:23pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    "Some of us do not have the [slightest bit of critical thinking skills]"

    FTFY....

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:34pm

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    +1 Jerk

    I point out that we have different subjective opinions and you insult me. Until we have the facts it is all subjective. There really is more than one way to look at the situation here, it is too bad that you cannot see that but it is your prerogative to be close minded. So glad I wasted time on techdirt.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 12:59pm

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    He's not "speculating", he is saying no Facebook message regardless of of what it is should be punished under a law meant to prevent wife and husband beating.

     

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    Dark Helmet (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:02pm

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    Wow, buddy, that's some mighty thin skin you have there. The point is that we know enough about how law enforcement behaves to know the answer to the question you're asking.

    Do we have the text of the messages? No. But we don't need them to make a judgement about how egregious that text was.

    Come on and cowboy up, partner. It wasn't THAT bad an insult, or you'd have had the cops arrest me....

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:04pm

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    So she removed him as a friend on her facebook and was charged with obstruction of justice and destruction of evidence.
    The End.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:07pm

    I dont agree with this law, but there should be some kind of law against those douchebags that put a goatzee/screamer video on youtube and put a bait title like "the REAL evidence that fox news is not fair and balanced", and collect 10 million views on poor suckers clicking on it.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:11pm

    Re:

    Not questioning police involvement is just as much a jump absent the text of the comments. You're speculating that it's justified, Mike is speculating that the law is over broad. Neither seems particularly unjustified given the evidence and the text of the law.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:30pm

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    I did not ask any question. Just pointed out that there are multiple interpretations, since we do not have the facts, any of them could be right or wrong.

    It is not think skin as much as I do not appreciate it. Honestly, it is difficult to have a productive exchange here when everyone jumps to being a jerk.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:34pm

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    He can't he is a shy gay pedo lawyer from DC with a crush on Mike.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:36pm

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    Exactly and how else you make something transparent, by being quiet?

    Why don't just shut the fock off then if it works so well, instead of bugging everybody with your mancrush on Mike?

     

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    A Monkey with Atitude, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:37pm

    Re:

    Except 1 big point in the whole thing i think alot of people missed.

    If the kid crossed the line to harassment, and threats, or "sexual miss-conduct" laws already exist to prevent that type of behavior. Why the "special" law? If he did cross the line and could be charged with any of the other 3 the Police/DA would have done so. They made a choose not to, so now they will try to push this new law, with little to no case law to back it up in an attempt to make it easier next time (and the next)...

    Something on the Legal side of things is fishy... anyway you look at it and they are trying to ruin a 15 year old's life in the process...

    My my how far we have fallen...

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:42pm

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    Let me guess you just got rick-rolled didn't you?

     

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    The Devil's Coachman (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:42pm

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    Threats don't make me feel anything resembling uncomfortable at all. I just feel that the person making the threats needs to stop breathing. Forever. It can be arranged. Simple. No need to involve the constabulary.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 1:52pm

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    "Man, reading between the lines ain't THAT hard...."

    DH, when it's Mike writing the lines, it's very hard to read between them. He is the master on intentionally leaving things out, excluding needed information or perhaps introducing non-relevant information (see the camera / gun post as a great example), and sometimes drawing the lines one over another.

    So, sadly, in this case there is huge gaps between the lines, and both of us can draw our own conclusions that fit within those lines. It's my entire point at the end, Mike selected a single conclusion, where the information provided allows for many other conclusions that would not agree with him at all.

     

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    Chuck (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 2:01pm

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    You'd be surprised how immature guys can get. I'm in second year uni, but just 2 years ago I had a hard time learning boundaries of "guy, leave me alone." Looking back, I know it was stupid, but when you're immature and caught up in the moment, you can't expect the best behavior.

     

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    blaktron (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 2:08pm

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    And did you end up in prison for it?

     

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    Erin B., Sep 26th, 2011 @ 2:18pm

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    Hahaha! Sorry to be dismissive, but no, it really isn't. First of all, women and girls are thoroughly conditioned to not say that, because it makes you sound like an oversensitive bitch. It's a good faith effort that I agree should be made, but man has it ever been ineffective in my own experience.

     

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    The Groove Tiger (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 2:30pm

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    Not just a jerk, but a jerk Online!
    In Space!

    C'mon, just a little call to the police... you know you want to...

     

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    Capitalist Lion Tamer (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 2:33pm

    Re:

    I want to cut off mikes ear and have sex with it.

    ... and then leave the ear in a small town abandoned lot for some do-gooding hardware store employee to find and consequently end up drawn into a perverse world of kidnapping, sexual sadism and Pabst Blue Ribbon.

     

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    Victor David, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 3:39pm

    If I feel "uncomfortable" about comments on Techdirt, can I really have the police investigate and potentially send someone to jail because of it?

    Perhaps not, but we are getting closer. Starting with sexual harassment laws, the definition of wrong-doing has become more and more centered around how the "victim" feels, not what the "perpetrator" did in actual real-world terms.

    Regrettably, some of this is necessary. We can't always spell-out every single action that constitutes a violation of a law. The law is frequently subjective. But these days, we have a lot of focus on reaction to the deed in determining violation, rather than on the deed itself.

     

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    Jay Flatiron, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 4:12pm

    Curious

    Mike doesn't really draw a conclusion.

    In fact about half the sentences in the last two paragraphs are actually questions. At most he uses this incident to suggest that this new law is too vague and may be used or overused with unintended results.

    Kinda like how this comment section is intended for people to discuss the articles, but is instead used or overused by people who think simply because they can comment or post online, they should.

     

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    Strawbear (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 4:32pm

    *steals your pillows leaving you feeling uncomfortable*

     

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    TheStupidOne, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 4:32pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re:

    Perhaps, but how does it make her look going to the cops over something a guy said to her on facebook? Couldn't she have said something less oversensitive like "Sorry dude, I'm just not interested"

     

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    Any Mouse (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 5:05pm

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    Really? That's ny my experience.

     

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    That Anonymous Coward (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 5:13pm

    Re: Re:

    When life gives you lemons... have a party.
    lemonparty.org

    Will cheer you right up.

     

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    Any Mouse (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 5:14pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    Threats make me laugh. A lot. Because they're all hot air. The less than 1% that are real have bigger issues to deal with upon knocking on my door.

     

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    B-Pickel, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 5:16pm

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    Nope, cause it wasn't done online

     

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    That Anonymous Coward (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 5:24pm

    Re: Curious

    pssst... I think those are meant to be 'thought provoking' questions. They sometimes lead to discussion, where differing points of view are debated. Occasionally they are punctuated with AC attacks on Mike for various sins. Sometimes people with wacky avatars make snide comments, and they get voted funny. Sometimes the wacky avatar people get voted insightful or picked for week in review posts. Its amazing how this discussion thing works sometimes.

    Things you can conclude -
    This issue bubbled to the surface and Mike found it worthy of covering.
    Rather than have a blog where he dictates what everyone should think, he often tries to encourage dissenting opinions and discussion.
    More often than not, people seem to agree with his assessment.

    I comment and post because I think I should, and sometimes its even relevant.

     

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    Any Mouse (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 5:27pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    That's why you read the linked posts, as well. Want to blame Mike for everything? That's fine. But if you're going to blame him for what the linked article doesn't show, then maybe it's time to step back. Because that is what you are doing, blaming Mike for the lack of information that he has no control over.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 6:13pm

    Re: Re: Re:

    Just wait for the details instead of falling into the Mike Abyss. He's bitching about something he has no details about whatsoever, like .. you know, Mike.

     

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    BeeAitch (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 8:03pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    If you're the same AC I think you are (and I'm not sure, because you are, after all, an AC) you have no business calling people out for "jumping to be a jerk", as that seems to be your SOP.

     

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    BeeAitch (profile), Sep 26th, 2011 @ 8:13pm

    Re:

    If I feel "uncomfortable" about comments on Techdirt, can I really have the police investigate and potentially send someone to jail because of it?

    I don't know, can you?

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 8:19pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    "jumping to be a jerk", as that seems to be your SOP

    Clearly.

     

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    Anonymous Coward, Sep 26th, 2011 @ 11:30pm

    Cyberstalking?

    He should not be charged with "cyberstalking" for just sending Facebook messages to her, no matter how inappropriate. Even if the messages rose to the level of criminal threats to her, it would not be "stalking" her in any reasonable sense of the word.

    Think of it this way: if he stood on his front lawn and she was on the sidewalk, and he started making those comments in person, would that be "stalking"? Of course not. She is free to walk away. So when those same comments are made online, in a medium where she is free to "walk away" by unfriending/blocking him, why is that "cyberstalking"?

     

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    vivaelamor (profile), Sep 27th, 2011 @ 12:03am

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    "Shouldn't she just start with telling him how he is making her feel?"

    How do you know she didn't?

     

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    G Thompson (profile), Sep 27th, 2011 @ 3:36am

    This is NOT Domestic Violence

    Don't know about America but here in Australia 'domestic violence' only applies where the victim of violence and/or threatened violence is or has been in a particular kind of relationship of either co-habitation, familial (family), or long-term sexual (sometimes even non-sexual) partners. Not someone you meet at school, work, or down the street, whether you know them or not.

    Why DV is even talked about here dilutes the very foundation of Domestic Violence. If anything this should be treated as high end harassment and treated accordingly through CURRENT laws that the USA as every other democratic country has.

     

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    Krusty, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 7:39am

    "It's for the children, help save the children"...remember what George Carlin said about the children.

     

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    Thebes, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 11:12am

    Free Speech

    "Inappropriate" messages are still Free Speech even if utterly repugnant.

    Nothing in the story indicates any unlawful threat of violence, so I will presume there was none, surely the police would have mentioned if there were.

    This is just a government attempt to cut back our Freedoms at the bequest of it's elitist backers who fear our Freedoms. If government can prosecute a man for "inappropriate" internet comments, that power will be used to stifle legitimate criticism of the government and it's cronies.

    Its time that We the People rise up and throw these b/tards out.

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 3:54pm

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    I miss the days when attacking the wrong person would simply be ruled "suicide."

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 3:57pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    Any time a complainant makes a spurious complaint, we should take them seriously! Because they might actually have a real issue they said nothing about!

    Because 'multiple interpretations' is license to fabricate harm where none exists!

    I know! I'll "interpret" your posts as a series of death threats against me! And you can't stop me; it's my interpretation!

    /s

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 3:58pm

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    Didn't you know, Mike can redact any content he likes from the pages visited by anyone who ever has or ever will read TechDirt?

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 4:01pm

    Re:

    I vote that life imprisoned in a North Korean concentration camp is a great "wakeup call" for people abusing laws and due process.

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 4:06pm

    Re:

    So you think it's more important to ensure that every crime is punished, than to ensure that the public has some measure of liberty?

    This reminds me of a conversation I had with this one guy who said if he had room mates he'd want to surgically attach monitoring devices to them to measure their breath, body heat, eating, and movements so he'd know exactly how much (to the fraction of a cent) to charge for rent every month -- because god forbid he fail to bill them for anything he possibly could.

    This is the exact same logic; the sad thing is, I'm not making this conversation up, either -- and if you think that "punishing crime" is more important than civil liberty, then you're exactly the same as the person I just described -- only you want to do it to the entire world.

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 4:07pm

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    That they're delicious?

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 4:08pm

    Re: Free Speech

    I think you'll find that /b/tards are considerably more reasonable than the 'government cronies' you refer to.

     

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    S, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 4:08pm

    Re: Re: Free Speech

    (And I say this with full and clear knowledge of what /b/ is like.)

     

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    uninformedluddite, Sep 27th, 2011 @ 4:54pm

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    That they are best enjoyed sauteed?

     

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    ned morlef, Sep 28th, 2011 @ 6:55am

    the problem

    "she" when i heard that i knew nanny state. women need to go back home and leave the laws to thinkers not emotionalists.

     

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    A Dan (profile), Sep 28th, 2011 @ 12:09pm

    Re:

    I read an article in a newspaper recently (since it was lying around at work) about the decline of mens rea in laws. That's exactly what you're talking about.

    Turns out it was the WSJ.
    http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053111904060604576570801651620000.html?mod=googlenews_ wsj

     

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    nasch (profile), Oct 1st, 2011 @ 10:09am

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    Yes, premeditated murder is such a simple solution, isn't it?

     

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    nasch (profile), Oct 1st, 2011 @ 10:12am

    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re:

    Would you like to explain a few of these conclusions and demonstrate how they're equally feasible?

     

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