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   Sohrab, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:01pm

   
   

   hhmm. That is very interesting. I think it has to do with the fact that when your writing, your not worried about hearing a rebutle or hurring somebodys feeling or offending, its 100% your view and you have some time to reflect while speaking via phone for example, they are right there more or less

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   Pocky, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:06pm

   
   

   I always remember writing papers in school and spending hours wiriting up the perfect presentation, then having to stop myself to re-word something I've written because it didn't sound right when I said it outloud. Everyone has experianced this at some point or another, just another example. Weither you think differently, or just more contious when speaking is debatable.

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   Chris, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:07pm

   
   

   Like the previous poster mentioned, I think this has a lot to do with the fact that when you are reading or writing, you are concentrating solely on the content and have time to go over a sentence again to make sure you understand everything. When speaking, your automatic responses kick in and you tend to focus less on the content of the conversation and more on the person you're speaking to.

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   Anonymous Coward, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:07pm

   
   

   Or perhaps people just don't think before they speak. You never get the chance to proofread your speach.

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   Well

   

   Peter Rambo, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:14pm

   
   

   I know that I speak and write very differently. I never spoke as a child, and in the past 5 or 6 years I've worked very hard on just being able to tell a story that lasts more than 15 seconds. Any longer than that and I fumble details and become incoherent.
   
   In high school, I had no friends because of my dead communications skills. It wasn't until I got to college and discovered AIM that I had real conversations with anybody. I can't speak, but I can type/write.
   
   From personal experience, they're two completely different forms of communication. And while yes, the ability to reflect on what you've written plays a part, I almost never re-read what I type into instant messenger programs anymore.
   
   There is a simple reason for the first statement. Most people's writing sounds unnatural aloud because most people are terrible writers. Just read this article aloud. It sounds natural because Mike is a good writer.

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   speak vs, mean

   

   Judah Jacobs, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:35pm

   
   

   why not ask dr. t. berry brazeltpn about the development of the 2 year old?
   
   Judah

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   Eleeterate, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:50pm

   
   

   I partly agree with anonymous coward above... people, for the most part, don't think before they speak. I also think that when you're writing you're using a more analytical, logical part of your brain than when you're speaking. Combine the two and you could very well have people answering completely differently for written surveys than spoken ones. Most of the dumbasses out there never pay attention to what they're saying... ever hear someone contradict themself in the same sentence... several times?

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   Eleeterate, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 9:55pm

   
   

   oh yea... and written things sound unnatural when you speak them most of the time because of the rhythm. Ask any musician, put too much thought into what you're playing and, more importantly, when you're playing and you're going to lose rhythm. So when you write you over analyze and the natural rhythm of speech goes away. It also helps that most people don't talk in complete (although coherent) sentences.

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   angelique, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 10:26pm

   
   

   exactly!

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    Tashi, Jul 18th, 2006 @ 10:44pm

    
    

    Writing the way people talk is a specific style. It's called prose. So unless one is purposely writing prose, writing one way and speaking another is normal, because you learn to read and write standard/formal English, and almost noone actually speaks that way, (as someone else stated) with English being the bastardized language that it is.

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    Mike (profile), Jul 18th, 2006 @ 10:49pm

    
    

    writing one way and speaking another is normal, because you learn to read and write standard/formal English, and almost noone actually speaks that way
    
    I think that's sort of missing the point of the study. We're not talking about formal/non-formal English, but about people saying completely different things when asked the same questions -- once written, once spoken. The difference goes beyond style.

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